
What began as a blog to explore the complexities of neurodivergence—primarily ADHD, autism, and their comorbidities—has gradually transformed into a deeply personal space. It has become a chronicle of my life apart from the loves of my life, my greatest accomplishments, and my biggest sources of pride and joy: my daughters.
However, life has taken a toll on me as a human mom, and after much reflection, I’ve made the decision to step back, take time for myself, and focus on healing. I want to become a healthier version of myself—not only for me, but for my daughters as well.
As a neurodivergent individual, battling severe burnout has significantly impacted the quality of my life, relationships, work, and parenting. After many trials and errors, and swimming against the current of life, I’ve come to realize the importance of making space for self-compassion and self-love.
Since I can’t be physically present with them in their daily lives, I’ve decided to write about the pain and heartbreak of being absent during this time. While quick messages and FaceTime calls help, there’s an ocean of emotions I find hard to convey. Writing, I hope, will help me navigate and process these feelings.
Perhaps one day, when they read this, they’ll understand their mother and her choices just a little bit better.
XO